Vaginal Steaming: Yes or No? Maybe so…

Who am I to interfere with a bunch of women looking for a good time? After my WCIU appearance discussing steaming and my Instagram post about the matter, I have been asked to elaborate on my stance against steaming.

My research revealed a startling result. I am here to present my findings. Vaginal Steaming may not be all that bad…

In this article, I plan to do the following.

  1. Examine why people desire to steam their lady parts
  2. Discuss some of the evidence for and against
  3. Give some reasons that a woman may want to try vaginal steaming
  4. Offer ways to steam safely and avoid harm.

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You’ve Been Asking For A Birth Plan. I have the secret to the best birth plan ever!

Birth plans are all the rage in pregnancy in the last five to seven years. Every app, every mommy website, every natural birth instructional anything contains mention of and often a template for a birth plan. In this post I will answer the following questions:

  1. What is a birth plan?
  2. What are some common misconceptions between doctor and patient?
  3.  What are things that you, the mother, can do to increase chances for a vaginal delivery?
  4.  What factors are unpredictable, so that you won’t be shocked if you encounter them?
  5.  What items SHOULD be on EVERY PARENT’S birth plan?

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sHe’s Gotta Have It #NotMeToo

I have at present gotten through one episode of the Netflix, Spike Lee Joint, She’s Gotta Have It. Spike Lee is an interesting man. His delivery of messages and points are very in-your-face. Subtle innuendos are not his strong suit. To each his own, I guess.

To each HIS OWN.

Hmm, that is an interesting statement in light of the present state of the media with regards to sexual misconduct and assault. #MeToo is a proclamation made by countless women and men that indicates a history of sexual discrimination, assault, and abuse. Continue reading “sHe’s Gotta Have It #NotMeToo”

Sex, Lies and HBO Insecure-ities: The Untold Story About Sex And Lady Parts

I still remember that the first movie sex scene I ever saw was when Terri’s husband bumped and grinded his cousin-in-law up against a wall in Soul Food. This was such pivotal scene that almost got Miles from Fake After Seven killed! It also felt so “hard-core” to me back then. I mean, I was born and RAISED in the church. Who knew that exactly 20 years later Lawrence and Tasha would be doing a butt-naked side bang and it would be just a regular day? Continue reading “Sex, Lies and HBO Insecure-ities: The Untold Story About Sex And Lady Parts”