sHe’s Gotta Have It #NotMeToo

I have at present gotten through one episode of the Netflix, Spike Lee Joint, She’s Gotta Have It. Spike Lee is an interesting man. His delivery of messages and points are very in-your-face. Subtle innuendos are not his strong suit. To each his own, I guess.

To each HIS OWN.

Hmm, that is an interesting statement in light of the present state of the media with regards to sexual misconduct and assault. #MeToo is a proclamation made by countless women and men that indicates a history of sexual discrimination, assault, and abuse. Continue reading “sHe’s Gotta Have It #NotMeToo”

When Keeping It Real-igious Goes Wrong: First World Problems

The day is on it’s way, it couldn’t wait no more. Here it comes… ready or not.

This is the chorus from Chance The Rapper’s latest song, First World Problems.

In this post, I want to discuss reasons why some people don’t grow spiritually IN the church, and ways for those who value church fellowship to keep souls come back to the place of worship again and again. Continue reading “When Keeping It Real-igious Goes Wrong: First World Problems”

Bad Bad Bad Bad Boys, They Make Me Feel So Goo-u-uud

I promise that I will not be blogging Insecure think pieces for the rest of my life. For now, it is my obsession, with so many pearls that a gynecologist such as myself can tackle. As a lady doctor, I am kind of a consultant. A Vagina Consultant- helping women keep their bodies and often their minds healthy. There is nothing like a real-life bad boy to generate some business for me. Continue reading “Bad Bad Bad Bad Boys, They Make Me Feel So Goo-u-uud”

Sex, Lies and HBO Insecure-ities: The Untold Story About Sex And Lady Parts

I still remember that the first movie sex scene I ever saw was when Terri’s husband bumped and grinded his cousin-in-law up against a wall in Soul Food. This was such pivotal scene that almost got Miles from Fake After Seven killed! It also felt so “hard-core” to me back then. I mean, I was born and RAISED in the church. Who knew that exactly 20 years later Lawrence and Tasha would be doing a butt-naked side bang and it would be just a regular day? Continue reading “Sex, Lies and HBO Insecure-ities: The Untold Story About Sex And Lady Parts”